So your kids are likely already used to participating in some of these forms of communication and interaction.
With knowledge, awareness and practice you can change their environment to allow them to be themselves.
Johnny’s opinions are not allowed to be his own, they must reflect the thinking of his parent.
Even worse, Johnny’s emotions are also vetted by his parent.
This one is more about the person than the communication.
Ignoring – Indicating to another person that they do not exist or that they are not worthy of your acknowledgement or communication.