Even if you meet someone to whom you think you have no previous connection, a 10-minute conversation almost always reveals that she went to high school with your college roommate, used to be on a volleyball team with that girl from your book club, and had a six-month stand with your favorite barista.Queers don't tend to expect our dates to come into our lives completely free of prior complication.Your best bet is to call your friend and tell her what you've heard. Your daughter should never be the one in the middle. Then explain that you miss her and want to save the friendship. Please know that even if you have a great conversation with your friend and mend your broken relationship, she might prefer to maintain some boundaries when it comes to your ex.
I have a best friend of almost 10 years, and, separately, an ex-husband of 13 years.I'm afraid if I tell her, she'll say I just want to make her mad (and I don't.) Should I tell her? Username: Anonymous If your friend is aware of it, then why is she going out with him...NYdiva4life So your cheating ex-boyfriend pursued you for months after you two broke up, but now he's dating your BFF? all you need to do is to find a boy that you like, not to make your ex jealous...It might be difficult for her to share every detail of her life because of how you fit into the story. It would be great if you could lean on some other friends in the future.
The important stuff shouldn't always fall to one person anyway.
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