The general Narcissistic cycle goes something like this – Narcissist finds new meat, lavishes her with attention and moves really fast – he keeps former girlfriends on ice by feeding them hope and nuggets of attention and affection – the new meat loses her shine and she gets relegated to the harem – he may bounce back to an old harem member in the interim while he looks for someone new and on and on it goes.
The women he meets could be beautiful, have a great job, good friends and money in the bank. It’s never about her and it will always turn out the same way.
I didn’t find that odd at first…until I noticed that more than eighty percent of the people on his Facebook were women ‘friends.’ I was the fresh meat, getting the lion’s share of his attention and what I sensed right off the bat was that these women were very territorial.
Since I was shiny and new, I garnered most of his time and affection and this didn’t sit too well with the other women in his life, who had been relegated to the end of the line.
Harem members may or may not know about each other. It often comes as a great surprise to most women that the man they’ve been obsessing over, has actually been bouncing around from woman to woman.
Narcissists like secrecy, because if his harem members ever compared notes, the web of lies that they’ve been weaving would come crashing down and he would lose his stash of supply.
For the Narcissist knows that it’s just a matter of time before he will make his hasty retreat.
A Narcissist is like a drug addict, always looking for his next fix.
This, after he repeatedly treated her like gum on the bottom of his shoe.
Membership does have it’s privileges, but the privilege is all his.