It seems to be a purely physical thing, between them, and I know I'm powerless to stop it. He does things for her that I can't do, hence the "physical affair." I love her too much to leave her, and I don't, myself, want anyone else.At this point, I'm wondering if I should just look the other way. A few months ago I discovered that my wife of ten years had been having an online affair with an ex-boyfriend that had been going on for 4/5 months.Real tricky these cheaters, and we almost broke up over that.She said it was nothing, but why hide it if it was nothing I say. I did feel a little hurt as I am good and was her best until this. She always came home with packages and some dinner for me. The next month brought my friends to my door, telling me "stories" they had heard about her. Well, the divorce cost me over 00 and almost two years of my life. Some days it is like it never happened and other days it is in living color. My wife, in our discussions and at my asking told me that she was his best sex.So he knows now, that I have the spy network and I have the upper hand. She said it was innocent and did not hurt anybody, but she is not me or you.each of us has their little quirks to your relationships. My wife of 3 years started cheating on me with the well-built older guy next door. It ends up she was staying home to work during the day to spend the hours with him, in our house.
But I will never forget the pain that adultery causes. Now, 7 years after the fact, the past infidelity seems to have caused an underlying rot in our relationship. We had several of them with 3 different men on several occasions and once with another women.
Well a few days ago my beautiful wife was on the computer and then went to shower and accidentally the computer on online.