Fighting Stance Acceptance would, of course, be the ideal approach.
Acknowledging who he is – his limitations and letting go of expectations – would be liberating.
Physical fighting stances involve balance, alignment, weight distribution and posture.
A psychological fighting stance is all about emotional balance – self-acceptance, abiding by your own moral code, forgiving yourself for failing to reach perfection (a rare achievement) and finally, offering yourself as much compassion as you would give a beloved friend.
So while I can’t personally identify with guys who are shut-off from love, I can acknowledge one thing: they keep me in business.
Nonetheless, the script as you would have wished it to be is unlikely to ever be realized.I have made sure our son is not affected by his grandfather’s indifference and unkindness. He only acknowledges his son, totally overlooking me, my sister and our families. Dear Reader, We are prisoners of those whose approval we seek.