Je laat je date niet in onnodige spanning of je wel komt.
Overall, arranging where to meet or pick up a date is flexible; It may be a prearranged location like a theater, restaurant or disco, or at the home of one or the other depending on availability of transportation.However if a young woman, presumably living with her parents, has accepted the invitation of a man it is customary for him to pick her up at her home; bringing a small bouquet, or a flower or two for the mother is considered in good taste. it is not unusual in Germany for a man to date a woman much younger than he. Most German parents do not expect (and may even get down-right nasty) if serious advances are made toward a young daughter (she having ideas of her own, notwithstanding.).