It’s basically the same idea as the smiley face and can also be used to lighten the mood.A good “lol” placed in a text message shows a woman you’re making a joke.For example, if you want to tease a girl but not come across as being too serious, you can say something like “Julie! It’s been forever since I’ve seen you :)” A text like this shows her that you’re inquiring about her and would like to know where she’s been lately. She’s so much more likely to reply to the first as opposed to the second, which is a little too pressing.At the same time, though, you’re making a bit of a joke about her not being around, so it’s a good way to ask something semi-seriously while at the same time coming across as playful. Using “lol” is a similar thing I like to do and recommend.
We use an internal messaging system specifically for young adults who need to contact a peer advocate — it is NOT a general chat messenger such as MSN Messenger, AIM, Yahoo Live Chat, Gchat or i Chat.
Women simply won’t give a man the time of day when he doesn’t know what to say in a text message! You really only have that first interaction with a woman, the time you actually get her number, to give her your best impression. Use these tips wisely and you’ll notice women responding more favorably to you.